{"id": "1t8w9mk", "title": "Fiancée (F29) insists I (M30) cut off my parents, struggling with the decision", "subreddit": "BestofRedditorUpdates", "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1t8w9mk/fiancée_f29_insists_i_m30_cut_off_my_parents/", "score": 2562, "comments": 372, "selftext": "**I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/Life-Chard-502**\n\n**Originally posted to r/relationship_advice**\n\n**Fiancée (F29) insists I (M30) cut off my parents, struggling with the decision**\n\n**Trigger Warnings:** &gt;!emotional abuse and manipulation, controlling behavior, death of a loved one, Borderline Personality Disorder!&lt;\n\n----\n\n[Original Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/zvCRhnXetc): **March 27, 2025**\n\nWe have been in a relationship for 9 years, engaged, and living with my fiancée ", "created_utc": 1778385731.0}